I'm not a television girl. Just don't really watch it too much at all. I'm always behind and usually don't know whats on and whats not. Now this doesn't bother me but it does bother some I often get "OMG what do you do then?" or "I can't believe you don't watch this! It's the best." I'm just more of a music and book girl. And personally I wouldn't change it for a thing. With it being winter now and I really don't feel like jet setting it around the east coast to other cold cities, I am home more often. With that, I began to watch some TV!!!! AHHH get excited! I'm totally up to like 4....ohh actually make that 5 television shows!!!
Okay so my 1st and foremost is Glee which I began watching in October, and the rest of these guys I pretty much just started; Jersey Shore(love that shit), The Office(ohh do I crack up), Take the Stage(love love love, makes me feel like I am right back in high school), Celebrity Rehab(ehh it's ok but if you've been to rehab this is really what it is like so it's not that entertaining if you've been through the real deal), and 16 and Preggers! And that is what we are gong to talk about today kids......16 and Preggers.
Well I got into this show by being snowed in for 8 days from a blizzard that we had a few weeks ago. There was a marathon on and after that I was like totally hooked. And by totally hooked I mean, I don't know what day or time its on but if I'm flipping through, I will totally watch. Like last night for example. The clock has struck midnight and I was no where near tired of course so I turned on my TV to discover a brand new 16 and Pregnant! Btw-I really miss the old cast. Anyways.....last night's episode was about a young girl named Nikkole(who the f spells Nicole like that. They completely butchered my middle name!) Nikkole was "going out" with Josh. And well I guess they did the dirty and this is what happened. Nikkole and Josh were having a baby!!! They both looked about 13....especially the Josh kid. Now Josh used to "talk to" this girl named Kayla, but we'll get into her in a few.
I usually do not feel sorry for these girls and I actually thought the couple that went ahead and had the child then gave it to a family who could not have their own children, was great. But sometimes I feel really bad. Nikkole is a great example. She showed no signs of maturity and was possibly the most quiet person I had ever come across. She did not seem like the type to even have sex that early so what I am thinking is that Josh, of course, suggested it and she just layed there and went along. It's really sad if you think about it. I truly couldn't tell if she and josh had a connection at all. Now they said they liked eachother but were both just sooo young I just don't think think they knew what was going on. Now after the baby was born, Josh was not allowed in Nikkoles house due to a conflict he had going with her mother. I just want to add for fun that the mom had like whitish blonde hair in scrunch curls with teased bangs from the '80s. Sorry I just had to tell ya'll that! Poor little Nikkole had no idea how to bond with her child it seemed and neither did Josh. They looked completly awkward with the little baby. So about 4-6 weeks after the baby was born, Kayla had entered Josh's life again. So what does Josh do? He goes over to Nikkole's house and informs her that he wants to "go with" Kayla again and peace out baby mama. Nikkole took this very very calm and collectively(because like I said before she does not know how to speak for herself and wouldn't disagree with a soul if her life depended on it.) Ohh Josh went to his new gf. BTW, who in their right mind would say "ohh josh your such a hot 15 year old and you have a baby I just totally want you and if your baby's mama comes near us I'll beat the shit out of her. You're mine! Yeah i don't know either but there it is another completely F'd up episode of 16 and Preggers.
Now I still don't exactly see the point of this show. They never give you a learning lesson at the end like "Hey teenagers having a child at this age is not the best of ideas if you can see. Please refrain from sexual intercourse." So what is the shoes point? Hoping kids will stop having sex in hopes of seeing that having a baby is a ton of work and very hard because you will most likely end up a single mother at this age? Or in hopes that they will see that they will lose the rest of their childhood? These little darling babies are so fortunate to have the wonderful moms that they do on this show but if this show is trying to prove a point, I don't think it's working that well.
For all of my teenage readers.....never let anyone pressure you into sex or anything that you don't feel comfortable doing. You have YEARS to have sex once you are in a serious relationship outside of highschool so please trust me when I say abstinence is a very good thing. I did not have sex when I was a teenager and am sooo proud of that. Always wear protection because I think STD's are up like 100% which is sickening! One out of 4 I believe is the number now for teenagers and young adults likeliness to have an STD. Not worth is kids. If you have any questions contact me like always and I'll give you my best advise but remaining a virgin and saving yourself until you are married is my best. Just know it only takes one time of having sexual intercourse to get pregnant and get an STD. If that doesn't scare you, I don't know what will.
Peace & Love
S
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