The Greatest Show

365 days exactly I wrote this lovly piece. http://sarahnicole-andwhoareyouagain.blogspot.com/2009/09/if-u-seek-amy.html It's actually one of my top ten favorite posts since I began this crazy thing I call And Who Are You Again? And we'll we actually making that list tomorrow seeing as it is And Who Are You Again's big BIRTHDAY!!!! 1 year bitches! Whoo!



So what I wanted to talk about tonight actually turned into me not talking about it so I just erased 3 hours of work along with photographs to basically paint you a smaller picture. Yes, I adore the blog above and yes I have had one night stands(2 true ones I believe) but the one thing I don't want to do is glamorize sex like I have in the past with some of my writings. Sex is a beautiful thing and it's met to be experienced that way, not the way that I, some musicians, movies, and some television shoes tend to talk about and show it. It's not like that at all. It's the most intimate and private thing you and another can do. I love how I act cocky, confident, and just soo hot and heavy I talk about and perceive the topic. That's how I am though and how most are about it but it's not just that. I sometimes forget I have younger readers that I do not want saying the things that sometimes come out of my mouth. So for this anniversary.....yayyyyyy AWAYD!!!!, I'm going to talk about how much sex really does mean to me and is not by any means a joke.



I waited until I was 21 years old, yep you heard it straight from me, 21 people. I've always had a vision in my head since I learned about sex that waiting was just about as glamorous as you can get. My promise to myself was to wait until I had found my soulmate. Well I'm still looking for that hottie.....has anyone seen him? haha Everyone else believed it was hot to have sex with your 1st teenage bf or gf. Which i am not putting down either. If that's the way you want it and you REALLY think this person is amazing. You're going to have your heart set on it and no matter what someone tries to say to you, you have your mind already set. One of the gorgeous girls I went to rehab with had this situation and she went through with it and I actually think she did the right thing. I actually think if I was her, i would have had sex as well. it's hard to say what you will or will not do until you are in the situation. Now I made a promise to myself to wait until marriage but it didn't work out. Was I pressured, HELL NO and if anyone ever tries to pressure you into something you just don't know what you want, you say no and explain to them and then go talk to someone older who you fell 100% at ease with and tell them about the situation. I don't know why I picked that night to lose my virginity, but I did and I stuck to my gut and I went through with it. Never will I get that chance back. Do i regret it? Absolutely! I wasted something that special on a gay I had been talking to for a couple months just to get it over with???? Sooo dumb. But it's done and over with and I should have stuck with my promise. So maybe my soulmate wasn't at college.......then obviously he is somewhere else or maybe i already know him or who knows BUT I gave something to a guy that I can't even remember his last name. I am proud of myself for waiting until I was 21 and a half but i can't imagine how hard it would be to have sex at a young age and have your heart broke or have sex at a party just cause "everyone else is doing it". Not worth it kiddos! Be proud of yourselves. Your bodies and your mind. You're beautiful. Sex or no sex. Have any of you all waited a long time or made it until marriage? Are any of you in a situation where "everyone else is doing it"? Let me tell you about those people......they have NOTHING going on and their dream is probably to get married and have kids. Not that that's not a good thing but when that's all you care about then yes it become a very bad thing. Boys do not like that crap either. be independent. Make yourself a dream list so large you don't know how God is going to help you conquer all of them but you go out there and start working. No one with a huge dream is wasting their time going to the high school parties and kissing"keviin" in a closet all night! Sex is not glamorous and I am sorry I put it out there like that.







MY TEENAGE READERS

Now my little Sunday school method is probably going to stick with me. But it's never a bad thing to bring back a good outlook you once had on a subject that is being thrown around to 12 year olds now a days. So here's to all of you that are Virgins!, Waited Until You Were Married!, or to those just waiting to find that perfect 1st person/hopefully soulmate! Best of luck and if I had to do it all over again I would have waited. Purity is a beautiful thing. Don't EVER get talked into doing something you don't want to. I sure as hell never did and I never will. You do not need to have sex to be and feel sexy. I waited until I was 21 and not for one minute did I think or did someone else think I wasn't cool. And just just a reminder once again.....DO NOT WATCH TEEN MOM!!!!!!! Or if you have already watched that pathetic show that glamorizes teen sex and pregnancies, just remember you NEVER want to be put in a situation that they were. Live your childhood as a child. Probably the best advise I could have ever given you. Just please live your childhood as a child. Always feel free to ask me questions if you need advise or another opinion on anything that is mentioned when it comes to sex. <3 u all!



Peace&Love

S

I am as Vain as I Allow

Yes! ....2009 and the years behind that are over! Finally! 2010 is going to be awesome. I just feel it in the -2 degree air! I just want to make one thing clear to you this year.....I do not wish to be in a serious relationship and do not wish to be proposed to. Thank You.

I've decided to switch it up this year and actually let all of you hotties know what's going to work and what's not. I'm a pretty simple girl and very extraordinary so don't worry this won't be boring. I don't want a guy in suit who has plans to move to the suburbs and start having a family. I've had my fair share of those and it is the BIGGEST turn off ever! Soo, let's begin.

WANTS
1. Nothing serious. Let's just have fun. Act like kids for a while. Be happy and not think about tomorrow but just live in today.

2. Someone to lay around with and play video games with all day in our sweats.

3. I love boys who fuck around with their guitars at all times and have jam sessions with their buddies. To me that's really fucking cool.

4. Be an individual and do not discriminate towards anyone. That will end everything faster then you even know.

5. You can be as immature as you want(cause I am as well), but once and a while be able to hold an intellectual conversation.

6. Be a dreamer.

7. Must have a laid back cool individual sense of style.

8. And be able to deal with my frequent vaca's, and that my friends come before anything.

9. Don't cheat. Just break up with me 1st. Is that too hard?

10. Stay in bed with me all day and play if I ask.

Soo that's not too hard right? I've been dating the biggest douchelords in the world I think. I can name like maybe one that had some of these qualities. 2010 is going to be different.

A Little About Me
I'm not changing for anyone. Most days I wake up, turn on Taylor Swift, and sing into my brush in my underwear. If that's going to be a problem then back off. I wouldn't care if you did the same.....well hopefully not to Taylor. I really have started thinking and worrying about myself and not everyone else around me. I will love, love, love the fuck out of you but if you hurt me or do something stupid, I'll have to move on. I have a shitload of goals right now so commitment is kind of hard that's why I want to make sure you read (1.) over and over ohh and the part about no marriage talk. I'm the best gf ever but do have a short attention span. Sorry. I do promise though that my heartbreaking days are over. Treat others how you would like to be treated! I a really fun chick. I'm also a lover of writing and recieving love letters and random roses.

Okay that's enough but here are some important questions to please send to your friends that you think I'd like or you or whomever hahaha this is soo fun!

1. What is your favorite band?(cliche? I don't think so. This actually tells a whole fucking story about a person.)

2. Favorite thing to do?

3. Do you tend to think about the future a lot or tend to try to just live one day at a time?

4. Do you talk about your cubicle job a lot? Do you have a cubicle job?(this also says a lot)

5. If you could live anywhere or plan on moving in the near future, where may it be?

6. Are you a sports freak? (I personally like Rafael Nadal but I don't take my tennis love too much out of hand.)

7. Would you care to live in a small apartment as long as you were with the one you loved?

8. Do you love to be in love?

9. Do you have a cool group of friends and love to have guy time? (I would sure fucking hope so)

10. Are you offended by all of my horrible language that I just put in this blog? (If so, I am truly sorry. Trying to quit.)

And my thing is "It is always better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all" Relationships are sticky and no matter how much love is there sometimes it may not work but you always have the wonderful memories.

Peace & Love,

S

-can't wait to hear what you think!

Talk That Sexy Talk To Me

This afternoon I was reminded of one of my favorite pastimes. So were at lunch today and one of my girlfriends gets a so so raunchy text message from a boy that she is talking to at the moment. Thank God we were there to help her through this difficult text situation and made her come out looking like a pro. She was a text sex virgin. It's called sexting and it can come in many forms. Very intimate texts, foreplay style texts, and full on text sex. I personally prefer the good old fashioned phone sex, but with technology today, it's all about the sexting. Thankfully my girlfriend went through her 1st round of "intimate texts", with the great help we had provided her, but sometimes it doesn't end up this way.

I am a very sexually open girl so text sex to me is child splay but don't worry I still do participate. Usually sexting happens when: your boyfriend or girlfriend is away, long distance relationships(don't get involved in LDR's btw. Not worth it!), and what used to be drunk dialing has now turned into drunk texting. The best part about sexting is that you get to send naughty naughty photos with your provocative texts. You get to get all dressed up in your sexy naughty girl gear or for you full on freaks you can dress it down to the nude. I DO NOT do the nude shots. Ok Ok you caught me....I did send a hot photo this year to an ex of my boobs after they grew 2 sizes! I just had to. These, nude shots, can end up in any ones hands and well I mean we all saw what happened to Miley Cirus. And if it's not posted on TMZ, for us normal people it may end up on facebook or even worse.....in all of our boyfriends or the boy that your seeing, friends inboxes!!! So, as I always state in every blog, lingerie is the way to go. Another rule, if this happens in the evening just have full on text sex. Don't waste your lovely lingerie and drunkenness on something unless it's going to get really hot and bothered. The intimate and foreplay texts are meant for usually daytime hours. Don't fret though, there is no bad time to get down.

I will only display the one poor act that text sexting can take. So you did all your boy and do your "her baby. I miss you so much. What would you do to me if you were here. I'm going to do this to you. Now I'm on top" blah blah blah freaky talk. Send a few pics of each other back and forth and before you know it your boy toy gets off and your left with no more incoming text and listening to "Touch Of My Hand." Now this is why I like phone sex so much better. Just put that bluetooth on and let your imagination go wild with both hands free. Very fun for both participants.

Best wishes in your experiences and hopefully you have a gf or bf that loves to do this. Life can be a bore, so don't date one. Even if you had just seen them sometimes all you want is more, more, more! If you find it hard to come up with your next line just say I want to have "hot dirty unicorn sex"eg:dlisted.com's explaination of Robert Patterson, and that should totally work

"I make no appologies. I'm into phonography. I like my bluetooth, buttons comin' loose. I need my hands free"-B.Spears

Peace and Love

S