Beyonce postpones concert in Malayasia

Kuala Lumpur, (ANI): Beyonce Knowles' concert in Malaysia was postponed by the singer herself, revealed Information, Communications and Culture Minister Datuk Seri Dr Rais Yatim.

Buzz up!Datuk said that there was no interference by his ministry on the matter and that Beyonce, 28, who was scheduled to hold the concert on October 18, had decided to postpone the concert on her own, reports New Straits Times Online.

According to him, there are many possibilities as to why she decided not to perform on the given date, and cited that one of the reasons could be because of pressure from the organisers. He also said her refusal to comply with the dress code or simply because the concert would not be profitable could lead to her postponement.

But he denied rumours that she had been pressured by threats from certain groups after she announced that Malaysia would be one of the venues for her "I AM...World Tour".

Pas Youth was one of the groups, which had declared to take 'further action' over the government's refusal to ban the concert at the National Stadium Bukit Jalil.

Baby is a Bad Boy

I don't know if I disclosed this yet but I get major obsessions whether its researching something I'm interested in all the way to playing the same song on repeat 20 times over. I actually do make CD's that only have one song on them so I don't have to keep hitting back. And yes, I constantly get lectured about this from my friends haha! So what I am trying to get to is what my obsession has been for the past couple of weeks.

Minus listening to 3, working my ass of and doing any job in my area so I can actually stay in my area, and red converse sneakers; I've been an addict to GG also known as Gossip Girl. I totally rewatched all of season one and I was dying for season two so after a very convincing speech from my best friend, I just had to go out tonight and get season 2 on DVD. But this blog is not about GG. It's about the yummy, bad as you can get boy, Chuck Bass. Girls and boys either love or want to be Chuck. He has that much allure. When I discovered him a couple years ago I was automatically turned on. He Spoke my language. Now I preferably prefer Chuck pre Blair days. I love how he always sleeping with a different girl everynight and day, drinking martini's openly at a bar at 18, and spreading scandalous rumors. Ohh and when he was in the mist of molesting Jenny, after he got hit by Lonely Boy, he stated "Hey It's a Party. Stuff Happens". I mean of course everyone should get almost raped at a party according to Bass. Chuck Bass is a true narcissist. But unfortunately he is not real. He is a character that a genius writer came up with. So while I'm still on my mission to find a real Chuck Bass around here, I guess I'll just have to envision my dream through the television.

Now don't get me wrong......I don't want a complete narcissist, and I don't want someone whos cheating on me, but I do want someone that will keep me always guessing with excitement. And maybe expensive gift too!

"Because I'm Chuck Bass"

Peace and Love

S

Got My Ass Squeezed By Sexy Cupid

We all know bars aren't the best places to meet people, but we never really obey that rule. Yes, we all go out to have some champagne here and there so whats the harm in meeting someone else who is just enjoying their cocktail as well? A lot. Everyone is WACK when they are at a bar. It's like the airs different in them and it gives good vibes of one nighters and public make out. Sick! But yes, I've been there and so have you boys and girls. It's only natural. But I actually have not been going out but rather enjoying nights in with loved ones, my journal, or my ear connected on the phone to my sisters that live in different states. Now by doing this, and especially for not having hangovers from drinking, I have my days to do some research on finding the hottest girls and hottest boys who actually share the same interests as you. This entry is going to be an ode to Pittsburgh......but you can truly adopt this to any city.

Whether you are a sporty or artsy person there are places in the city to fit your needs.

Walnut Street in Shadyside. Kinda like a little wannabe M Street in Georgetown minus the fab Intermix and Barneys. Lots of hot boys and girls and tons of coffee shops. Bring that laptop and act like it cannot connect to the WiFi so then you can ask a hot boy or girl that you see to help you out. This leads to conversation which will always lead to dates. Don't be afraid of doing the asking out. Do you really want to live your life thinking "what if?" Museums. I woke up this morning and I couldn't wait to get to the Warhol Museum for the new exhibit! I know some of you don't think this way. I've been gay like this since I was 3 but it's never to late to start showing an interest in Visual Arts. Especially Andy's! The Museum idea also works FABULOUSLY in DC and NYC as well of course! Just drop your program, do the "bend and snap" and you're on your way!!! Carson Street. I'm a sucker for the southside and I love that it's absolutely nuts. Once again.....coffee shops(I have loved the Beehive since I was 14), tons of music venues that gigs usually run at 7pm....a good time because hopefully nobody will be seeing double at 7. Now theres nothing better to me than a guy that either plays or enjoys good music. Soo hot! A million little resterants including my favorite....Mallorca. And the Art Store that's around 24th street I think. I spend hours in this store wishing I could draw, staring at the beautiful white canvases, the lovely oil paints, and always letting myself get something even though I can only draw stick figures. Hey, a girl can dream. I ALWAYS see hotties here. And who doesn't want a boy that can bust out some Leonardo moves and draw you with nothing but a diamond necklace on??? Too busy to go hang out at these places?? No prob. It's called match.com. Now this didn't work for me but I do have a close gf who LOVES it and actually does find boys she likes on it. The best part about Match.com is that is you really want someone that plays tennis, listens to your favorite bands, and has dark hair and dark eyes; you can totally find them. I only found one person that, for me, was datable and we lasted a little over a month. I dumped him because he literally BOREDDDD me to death. And I'm a talker, crazy, fun person and he just wasn't meshing well with my flow so he had to go!

Here's my new favorite spot for meeting hot girls and boys, Wardrobe Fittings, Casting Calls, or on the Set. Yesterday at my Wardrobe fitting(that lasted almost 3 hours!!!!) I met the cutest little model boy. We talked forever and here's the downer, he lives almost 2 hours away from Pittsburgh so I don't do good at LDR's so I had to call it quits but I cannot wait to shoot with this hottie next week. Just love him. Then on my way out I saw two other really hot boys waiting for their fittings. And don't worry guys.....the girls were gorgeous as well!!! So if you have the experience and the looks go read for your local agency and hopefully you will get represented and booked for a few gigs.

And the last thing......you have to have the confidence of no other. I can't stand wimpy guys and girls who complain about "I was too embarrassed to talk to them", "Theres no way a hot boy/girl like them would like me", Or the classic "It's the boys job to ask me out". Well you know what.....it's 2009, we have to make our own paths. If you want something just go after it and get it!

Ohh yes, and lots of girls say sports bars but it's to my belief that this is the worst place. Boys are into sports. Let them have their guy time. They don't come bother us when were getting mani's and pedi's so why bother them. I mean we all saw what happened to Samantha on SATC with her basketball loving boy toy? Complete disaster!

Peace and Love

S

Velvet Ropes and Guitars

Sorry for being a disappearing act since my last post on Tuesday but I'm back in my hometown and there were just so many exciting projects to jump into, I have exhausted myself. Now once again I will tell you.....I am quite the trendsetter so if I were you I would follow accordingly. Thank you. Here are my top October Essentials.\

10. Scarves-Now I love grabbing a scarf and adding to whatever I have on. You can do this for warmth and for fashion. I mean who can forget what a fashion opt was caused by the awesome McQueen skull scarf! I love Chun Luu's creations and I'm still a sucker for the Love Quote scarves that every celeb had a couple years ago. I have one in hot pink and one in white. Love them! Ohh and be original and stay away from the classic Burberry check. Burberry has lovely scarves w/out there damn print all over it. It's annoying to see those. I have one and believe me it only comes out when warmth is absolutly needed.

9. Basketball Diaries DVD. A classic of Leonardo.

8. ESPN Score Center app for your iPhone. I love this app and although I only use it for men's tennis it will come to great use for all of you guys and girls who are in the mist of your football obsession and need up to the minute scores.

7. Cashmere Eye Mask. A girls gotta sleep! BTW, the one shown above is actually the eyemask Holly Golightly(Audry Hepburn) wore throughout the classic Breakfast at Tiffanys.

6. Tom Ford Sunglasses. This is still, from what I know, the only thing that Tom Ford has for women. These sunglasses may be a bit higher in price point but are totally worth the splurge.

5. Unsigned Bands. Support you local music scene and hit up some Pittsburgh based, or whenever you may be, gigs.

4. Pearls, Pearls, and more Pearls. Just dip yourself in them before heading out. They are everywhere and very layered in multiple strands! Gunmetal Pearls are hot as well.

3. A ticket to the Monster Ball starring Lady Gaga. Major must see!!!

2. Chanel polish in Diabolic. A fabulous updated version the very famous Vamp.

1. Best Friends......obviously!


Peace and Love,

S

Boys Like You Love Me Forever

This past week I took a lovely vaca down south to Charlotte, NC. And the boys were everywhere!!! Now I have TONS of experience with crazy bf's and dates but this guy took the cake. He proved to me that he was the craziest of crazy, leading him into what I and Vince Vaughn call a stage 5 clinger! We had met on Wednesday and he was cool, played guitar and sang in a band, had dark eyes.....pretty much all the things I like, so when he called the next day and invited me to dinner then to see him play I accepted. Boy I sure didn't know what I was getting into!!!

My ex boyfriend from the band Filter was kinda the same way. Told me he loved me after 2 weeks, called and text "I miss you" a few times everyday while on tour, and clinged to my every word and displayed major PDA. Maybe this is a musician thing.....I don't know. Now the stage 5 clinger, whom we'll call "J", makes my Filter boyfriend seem like a normal boy. Now dinner with J went smooth. We had a lot in common and mainly talked about the arts, performing and visual. It was great to find someone who shared the same thoughts on many subjects. Afterwards we went to the venue and I watched him play. Everything was still going smooth. After the set was over is when shit started to go down. Guys, DO NOT EVER attempt any of these moves on a 1st date!!!

1. Shoving your tongue down my throat in front of a dozen people watching us.
2. Have to hold my hand at all times.
3. Telling me that I am making him jealous when dancing with one of his friends.
4. Constantly confessing to me that I am the most beautiful girl in the world.
5. Introduce your dog to me as the dogs mother!!!
6. Call me your girlfriend.
7. Telling all your friends that you have "found the one."
8. Asking me to move in after only knowing me for 36 hours!!!
9. Telling me and others that we are going to get married.
10. Staring at me intensely and drooling at the mouth.
11. Texting me "I miss you baby" with a frowning face only 45 minutes since I've seen you. And then calling on repeat since I did not respond.
12. Call from different numbers so I'll pick up not thinking it's him. (Such a girl move!)

And the worst of the worst I have ever experienced; Planning out the holidays so we can both spend time with both families!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay I am throwing up in my mouth a little just recalled this hot mess disaster. Now boys.....we like you because you are supposed to be masculine, not a wimpy desperate chick! And girls watch out. If it can happen to me this means it can happen to you too. I didn't know these clingers existed but they are out there and they are scary! Watch out because they do not give the crazy vibe until an hour in. If this happens to me again, or any of you girls, leave where ever you are asap. This is a serious situation that will leave you scarred.

For the rest of my vaca I hung out with the HOTTEST 20 year that looked like he had just stepped of the set of Gossip Girl. And it was soo refreshing to not hear from him every minute of everyday! He kept it fun and sexy, not clingy. Now that's the way to go!

Peace and Love

S

Talk That Sexy Talk To Me

This afternoon I was reminded of one of my favorite pastimes. So were at lunch today and one of my girlfriends gets a so so raunchy text message from a boy that she is talking to at the moment. Thank God we were there to help her through this difficult text situation and made her come out looking like a pro. She was a text sex virgin. It's called sexting and it can come in many forms. Very intimate texts, foreplay style texts, and full on text sex. I personally prefer the good old fashioned phone sex, but with technology today, it's all about the sexting. Thankfully my girlfriend went through her 1st round of "intimate texts", with the great help we had provided her, but sometimes it doesn't end up this way.

I am a very sexually open girl so text sex to me is child splay but don't worry I still do participate. Usually sexting happens when: your boyfriend or girlfriend is away, long distance relationships(don't get involved in LDR's btw. Not worth it!), and what used to be drunk dialing has now turned into drunk texting. The best part about sexting is that you get to send naughty naughty photos with your provocative texts. You get to get all dressed up in your sexy naughty girl gear or for you full on freaks you can dress it down to the nude. I DO NOT do the nude shots. Ok Ok you caught me....I did send a hot photo this year to an ex of my boobs after they grew 2 sizes! I just had to. These, nude shots, can end up in any ones hands and well I mean we all saw what happened to Miley Cirus. And if it's not posted on TMZ, for us normal people it may end up on facebook or even worse.....in all of our boyfriends or the boy that your seeing, friends inboxes!!! So, as I always state in every blog, lingerie is the way to go. Another rule, if this happens in the evening just have full on text sex. Don't waste your lovely lingerie and drunkenness on something unless it's going to get really hot and bothered. The intimate and foreplay texts are meant for usually daytime hours. Don't fret though, there is no bad time to get down.

I will only display the one poor act that text sexting can take. So you did all your boy and do your "her baby. I miss you so much. What would you do to me if you were here. I'm going to do this to you. Now I'm on top" blah blah blah freaky talk. Send a few pics of each other back and forth and before you know it your boy toy gets off and your left with no more incoming text and listening to "Touch Of My Hand." Now this is why I like phone sex so much better. Just put that bluetooth on and let your imagination go wild with both hands free. Very fun for both participants.

Best wishes in your experiences and hopefully you have a gf or bf that loves to do this. Life can be a bore, so don't date one. Even if you had just seen them sometimes all you want is more, more, more! If you find it hard to come up with your next line just say I want to have "hot dirty unicorn sex"eg:dlisted.com's explaination of Robert Patterson, and that should totally work

"I make no appologies. I'm into phonography. I like my bluetooth, buttons comin' loose. I need my hands free"-B.Spears

Peace and Love

S

Come Feel This Magic I've Been Feeling Since I Met You

Hopefully this will get my current obsession out of the way but for the past week all I can do is listen, read, and find out everything I can about Taylor Swift! Now I don't know if I posted my obsession blog on this or if it's in my notes but I go through obsession phases quite often with musicians, other artists, and topics that capture my attention. This is why I spend a lot of time at the library!!! Well this week it was Taylor and let me tell you that I do believe everyone needs to take the time and listen to Fearless because Taylor is such a beautiful and truthful songwriter that you can actually picture yourself in every situation. This Album is based around boys, aka my favorite topic. I have no idea when this came out but I really wanted to go to a concert last week so I chose Taylor's and stole my mothers copy of the CD. At 1st I just listened to "You Belong With Me" over and over but soon I drifted onto other songs. I can't even pick a favorite because I seriously, and probably most of you as well, have been in these situations. Now it get off the topic of her album(which you must purchase!), I will tell you a few secrets I found out about Taylor.

1. Her idol is Britney Spears. Now if that doesn't say much I don't know what does. She gets an A+ in my book for that because Britney is also my idol!

2. Even though she's been dumped and broken hearted many times she still holds no angst against guys and believes in love. In my last post you will notice I wrote an almost similar statement about how in love I am with love, soulmates, and fairytales. And I've been burnt a lot.

3. My friend Shelly got to go onto her tour bus and meet her! She said she was sooo nice and sooo beautiful in person! And Shelly meeting her idol just made my heart smile for her these past few days. I'm just soo happy.

4. She loves what she does and she worked her ass off to get where she is. Writing all her own songs, and having her guitar by her side at all times. Believe it or not she has been singing, writing , and playing the guitar since age 8.

5. She admits to doing the best stalker move ever. We all do it from crushes to ex's........the classic drive by!!! My best friend and I did these at least once a day. We would borrow our friends cars and think we in disguise hahaha!

6. And best of all......She LOVES being a role model to her fans! You don't find that anymore so often. She stated that it is one of the most important things in her career. She's just a sweet little angel so who wouldn't love to follow in her footsteps?

To finalize this post here is a quote from Taylor about being Fearless and it's beautiful: Fearless is getting back up and fighting for what you want over and over again...even though every time you've tried before you've lost. It's Fearless to have faith someday that things will change.

Please listen to White Horse and Hey Stephen if you choose to download them. These are my current two favs! And please check out the great photos that I added to my album of her tour bus, T with her fans, and her wonderful concert!

Peace and Love

S